Unlike women, men are more excited by physical contact with a woman, the physical components. A woman's appearance is very important to them. While emotional components and having a spiritual connection are important to women, they often turn a blind eye to physical imperfections. It is important for her to make sure that she is loved and that her partner does not leave her after intercourse. The excitement itself, the desire for sex, is part of the strongest instinct - the instinct to procreate.
Everything is transparent here, if a woman gets pregnant, she will need a man's help while she raises the child. And at this time, one male can impregnate countless females. It sounds cynical, but that's natureinstinctmale offspring: leaving behind as many healthy offspring as possible. Therefore, male arousal has a simpler mechanism.
How does a man experience excitement?
It is not for nothing that they say that a man cannot reason sensibly when there is a woman around to stir him up. At this point, he's really starting to think worse.Indicators of sexual arousalfor men:
- Erection. Perhaps its most striking and obvious manifestation. But an erection does not occur only when excited, but simply a full bladder or a morning erection;
- Rapid pulse, thanks to this, breathing also becomes more frequent;
- Dilated pupils, the appearance itself will be glassy;
- changeusualtimbresounds, becomes hoarse and breathy;
- Redness of the skin, strong redness may appear on the face;
Arousal can and does develop if intercourse does not occur immediately. But this game should not be dragged out, otherwise the excitement will begin to decrease or premature ejaculation will occur.
What exactly makes a man?
Apparently, all you have to do is undress and he's ready. But everything is not so simple, and the real excitement is the result of their combinationmany factors. One, of course, is that a man finds a woman attractive.
It defines this at some animal level.He is attracted to herappearance, tone of voice, smell, facial expression, plasticity of movements. But apart from that, certain actions, the female body and even the colors of clothing can drive you crazy.
Actions that excite you
There are actions on the part of a woman that can excite an existing passion or even generate a new one:
- A woman's willingness to surrenderalways and everywhere, but only to a certain person. The realization that the partner is frivolous and that such a treasure is only in her hands feeds the man's desire.
- Spontaneous caresses, a women's initiative. If you suddenly start caressing yourself, and even in a place that is not entirely suitable for this, for example, in an elevator, then the man can completely lose his head.
- Seeing. A man can really be revealed by the inviting gaze of a woman, which says: "Come to me, try to conquer me, maybe I won't mind. "
- Keep it new. Men are usually excited by anything new. A new place for potential sex, a new style of clothing for your partner, a new perfume, a new hairstyle.
- Stimulation of erogenous zones. Men have fewer of them than women, but they still exist. In addition to intimate places, these are most often the back of the neck, the auricle and the abdomen.
- Wear sexy clothes. Whatever they say, men are turned on by certain clothes, even if they don't fit everywhere. These are mainly tight dresses made of thin material or leather, short minis and low necklines.
- Posture, in which the swaying of the hips and chest definitely excites the man.
- Beautiful plasticdancebeautiful girls. Especially if you undress slowly in the process.
Female body and excitement
First of all, people perceive itoverall picture, as the sum of all physical data. And if the image catches his eye, he looks at it and notes the details. Looking at certain parts of the body has a particularly stimulating effect.
Most often thisbutt and breasts. Of course, there are aesthetes who are excited by the ankle or the ear, but this is more typical. What excites you more is very individual, maybe some people are excited by the breasts, others by the bottom. A lot of people are still turned on by their abs and not abs, but a little soft tummy.
Sexual positions
Preference for poses depends on ittemperamentin bed and how expensive the partner is.
- Missionary position. If it's sex between people who really miss each other, the man is probably more turned on by this position. So you can caress the breasts, caress her hair and face, and kiss the woman on the lips.
- Like a dogobsessiondog style. There is something animalistic about this position, and this moment turns you on during sex.
- Girl on top, both facing the partner and vice versa. At the moment of intercourse, the woman controls everything: the depth of the insertion, the pace, and when to stop, it all depends on her, which makes this position special. And the view that opens before a man does not leave him indifferent.
- Near the wall. There is something cinematic about this pose. Men like this position for its entertainment value, although it is not very comfortable in itself and the exposure is not maximum.
It is also particularly important that the man likes to see his partner during sex, so they prefer any position in which the details of what is happening are as visible as possible. And the light must be on and the partner must be completely undressed.
What colors can excite a man?
The naked body is already exciting at the moment of sex. But before that, a man is interested in stripping a woman, first down to her underwear, and then completely. That's important toowhat colorYou will wear toiletries and underwear.
When choosing lingerie and clothes, women need to know what turns men on the mostred,blackAndpurplecolors of underwear and clothes. These colors promise a masculine experience and sensuality in bed. THEwhiteAndbeigecolors excite those who like very young, inexperienced girls.
Why men are turned on by women's breasts
It's no secret that full and high breasts wear out almost all men. But when you think about it, what's so special about it, why doesn't it turn on another body part, for example? From a point of viewbiology- this is the biggest mystery, in other mammals the breasts grow only before feeding, and they do not attract males, only cubs. And in sexually mature females, it always increases, and men react excitedly to this.
Reasonsthere can be more:
- In women, the nipples and the breasts themselves are the strongesterogenous zone, and men want to excite women by caressing their breasts.
- It is customary for people to hide their breasts, and the forbidden fruit is sweet.
- Only people have sex in front of each other.
- How are the breasts?distinguishesmale and female and what we associate with female warmth.
- And that's probably the pointinstinctprocreation. The main purpose of breasts is to feed babies. And a woman's large breasts subconsciously tell her that she will feed her offspring well. But to be honest, in reality this is not always the case, the amount of milk does not depend on the size of the breast. This is what subconsciously attracts men. After all, the very desire to mate is to continue the competition, to leave offspring.